So a detective I will never be. I guess men live in the big picture world and we tend not to major in the minors. At least that is what I think came from this conversation. That is why it is important to listen to understand and not to respond. Also, to go into things without a specific expectation of how things might turn out. I think I surprised my wife a bit on this one and she needed some time to think so that is why it turned into a 2 part conversation. Which is good. Through that difficulty and disagreement is where the real growth occurs. Happy listening and God Bless!!