No one wants to admit they are wrong. But that is exactly what asking for forgiveness implies.
Your saying that you screwed up!
And sometimes, it is hard for us to forgive. As humans we want to get even. We don’t want someone to be one up on us.
We think forgiveness implies that what someone did is no big deal.
And what if you can forgive but then want that person out of your life completely because you know there is no way the other person is going to change.
Not matter how badly you want them to.
I do like one thing the pastor said.
Forgiveness is not natural. It is supernatural. It is otherworldly. It comes from the Holy Spirit.
Some days I think I have forgiven all those in my past and other days, of course, I am not so sure.
As my wife says, it is a process.
But ain’t that just life.